What should I do with my ex boyfriend??? urgent!?

we broke up like 5 days ago but we are still talking and he is acting like hes planning to get back together. these days he has been hanging out with his friends without telling me anything (and some time ago he used to get mad at me for not telling him when I go out with my friends). his friend went to his house and he told me about that but he didnt tell me about his friend going to his house today. I got very mad and I sent him a msg saying awww I love how ure talking things slow (because he didnt like that friend, and now they all of a sudden started going out every day and he doesnt even go out with me). he got mad and said dont fcking call me gay etc. what should I do? should I stop talking to him?