WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY CONTACTS?!?!?

I jut got contacts a month ago, So Today was time to put in my 2nd monthly contacts. They both feel like little pebbles in my eyes (hurts) and things are blurry and even if things get clear if i blink they're blurry again, and they hurt again. I know I put them on correctly (bowl shaped), I clean them, I even put in eye lubricants afterwards cause that usually help, but this time it's done nothing. WHAT IS WRONG i AM GETTING VERY FRUSTRATED.