How can I escape the lower-middle and middle cles?

Perhaps join groups/forums on the internet which are for more stereotypically intellectual pursuits (and which, preferably, have real life meetings on occasion): clical music, literature, architecture, culture, poetry etc. Certainly any education is a plus as this is correlated with good conduct, but I wouldn't choose your qualifications based on meeting a spouse as high-end interests are mively diverse. However, I wouldn't ume the same correlation with amount of money as a great deal of the rich are just as obnoxious as those at the other end of the scale.